Wednesday, November 5, 2008

"My Last Cry"

Sometimes we could just be so headstrong in holding on to something that we want so badly.
We can defy and go against reason and sensible judgement just to pursue the longing of our heart.
There is nothing wrong in hoping for love to blossom a midst unfavorable circumstances,
but there are times when we simply have to accept the reality that it's all over.
You don't have to do anything wrong to turn love away from you.
Sometimes he just didn't love enough.
Maybe he just went along with the flow all the while.
And you were just too blindly in love to see it.
I admire your determination to fight for him but there are times,
when we have to learn to step on our brakes and stop.
It's useless to pursue someone who doesn't love us anymore.
You may have all the strength to fight for what you feel but sooner or later these wishful longing will turn bitter and sour and will make you feel sorry for yourself.
It may be true that finding someone new may help ease the pain of losing love but we have to be careful for we may turn out to be users instead of sincere givers.
If you are only using someone to feed your longing for him then you're really not in love with him. You cannot lie to your true feelings.
You cannot cheat your heart. Let him go for he doesn't deserve you.
Before going on to a new relationship we have to make sure that we have totally reconciled all unresolved issues of the past.
Don't waste your time waiting for him for it could take forever.
Let us not cry over the things that could have been for when love goes it means only one thing: that it was never meant for us.
When love dies we don't have to die with it.
It doesn't mean the end when someone leaves us.
It simply means we have to go on and start a new beginning.
Many of us ask ourselves why we have to fall in love just to get hurt.
Why do we have to find and keep someone only to lose him in the end?
What we would all probably dread the most is waking up the next morning only to discover that the person whom we love so much doesn't feel the same way for us anymore.
Love isn't always forever and when it dies, a part of us will also painfully whither with it.
If I could only knew the answers of why being inlove comes with being hurt.

How could it be the person who makes you extremely happy is also the same person who makes you cry over and over! Believe me, I would have shared it to the world!
Heads high, wipe the tears and compose yourself tomorrow maybe, just maybe you'll never cry again! It might be MY last CRY!!!!!

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