Ever been hurt? Either physically or mentally by someone?The feeling of hurt is especially intensive & heartfelt when it is caused by someone who is close to you or by someone who mean something to you....
The degree can be from very minor/mild, to something to the extent of indescribable..
For people whom you hardly know or you dont even care about, whatever that they say or do, would not affect you at all...it's just like a brush of air pass your ears...but if it came from someone who is special...it's just like a stab to your heart...
Hurt, is a feeling, and feelings are very vague, you could not really describe it...but sometimes, during a certain incident...surprisingly, it could actually be felt....the feeling of hurt...could actually be that intense that you feel it physically, as if someone is tugging on to your heart & you feel the pain...
There has even been descriptions like "it felt as if someone stabbed a knife into my heart directly, pulled it out, then open the wound & rub salt into it to see it bleed".....
Well, it may sound a bit dramatic, but some people have actually felt that...
It is especially true for some people who's love ones have just cross over to the other world to enjoy their life, & they are left alone suddenly....OR, it could be those people who have just encountered a sudden lost of love, because of a breakup which was unexpected after many years later of being together and you thought you knew that person....all these can be really heartbreaking...
Normally, for those who have just had their heart broken...alot of feelings would come along to complement each other rather than just hurt....There would be anger & frustration coming along, with thoughts of "what happened""why did he treat me like that"...then along comes with confusion "Did something go wrong? what did i do wrong" "Why i never noticed that there's a problem"....after that would be the sadness & depression of the "after" effect..."So many years....how could he/she..just gave up like that without trying""why has it got to be me?"....& at the end...all would be mixed up...
At this point, it is how the feelings are cope with, because there would never be an answer...the person, on the other side, if he/she would have thought of your feelings, he/she would have been more tactful...but sometimes...even the most cautious person, doesnt mean, they would not hurt you..as there could be a point whereby, they have to choose to hurt you...or hurt themselves...
And human beings....would always be selfish...at the end of the day...YOU YOURSELF do mean the most afterall....
so stand up straight, push the thoughts aside...find something to do...but not someone...as there would be another chance of being hurt....until one day, when you have finally let go of the past.....& ready for challenges, should you enter back into the world both with fear & hope...for a total new beginning...but this time...with better preparation...if hurt does come along again...to be able to handle it...=)
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