Mars & Venus

As per the title...obviously it's gotto do with men & women...
well, 1st of all...other than there are differences when it comes to the physical parts, whereby certain pieces are added & certain pieces are missing....
What's the biggest difference between Men & Women?
The personalities? The distinctive 6 sense & intuition? The strength & weeknesses? or the hobbies & interest?
Well, i think it's the way the brains are working...which voice down to the thoughts & emotions...
hmm..talking bout brain, about thoughts....
is it because most of the time, women thinks more with their heart only when it comes to analytical issues they use their brains...but mostly overcome with emotions?
or is it because guys have got two brains? as what they say, two heads are better than one? but most of the time or all the time, one brain is not thinking at all & is affecting the other one which is thinking...or should i say leading the thinking one along...which in most cases, ended up making the wrong decision?
As for ladies, normally they would be affected by emotions, which also make them end up controlled by them and make hasty decisions or do irrational things at the worst moment...which is why, they at the end of the day, tends to regret on their decision making....
Which is why men always say that women cant think rationally or make good decisions....
But....we all are humans afterall...how could we not have emotions?
Making decisions without feelings, or without Feeling the decisions you need to make, would make the outcome at times, beyond returnable state, or harsh at times....
Thus, there is always two sides of the coins....the need is just to find a balancing point...yup...the word is JUST TO...and IF we can find it...
the only thing we can do is probably to try...finding the balancing point which is very difficult....or to try....understanding each other's indifferences...
As some people say, women came from the men, they are actually a part from the men's ribs...which means that we do have to complement each other to a certain extent...
it's like yin & yang, father & mother, you need to have both in order to have a balance....
at the end of the day...it's not so much of men or women but the personality traits which clashes...we just have to be able to understand this & to accept it & find a correct way to go round the traits to adapt or blend in to each other...
if we could accept why is it that women always pick on petty things which seems to matter a whole big deal to them, while men always brush these aside and only focus on the big issues...is because men tend to be more of a superhero character & women are more on a damsel on distressed...though we may be pretty tough at times & can take care of ourselves completely well without men...we still have our times, when we are soft & need someone to lean on...afterall...we could always blame in on the PMS or hormones...
If we could just dont ask why...& accept the fact & try to understand that's just how each of us are, & take the fact that though we do not think it's important, but it is to them, why not just accept rather than pry on the WHY? & then think they are weird....
it's all a matter of preference i guess, just like why guys like cars, but ladies like beauty products...the differences...
there was once a saying that men & women used to be one until they separated, & it is up to you to find the exact perfect piece to fit in the puzzle, as when parted, each pair is spilted differently...but it is a matter of IF & WHEN we can find them...
Thus when one knows that it is tough or almost impossible, cos not all people have the luck of finding their other real perfect half...
so, why not...let go or our indifferences & start all over again...as individuals who care & understands.....